PRAYER IS… RELATIONSHIP. Prayer is speaking to the Lord. Prayer is having a living open communication with the Lord God eternal. It is a phenomenal privilege that we, who are the creatures of dust (see Gen. 2:7) can come and have fellowship with the Lord. Prayer flows from the enjoying of a relationship. When we are drawing near to God, we are in awe of who He is and we bring proper acknowledgement of His essential majesty and holiness. Therefore, we reverence this One and always start our praying in the atmosphere of Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name (Matt. 6:9). And yet we can come boldly to him. In Hebrews, we read that we do not have a high priest who is unable to feel sympathy for our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are – yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
PRAYER IS… VITAL. Your life is now hidden with Christ in God (Col 4:3b) is Paul’s statement concerning where our true life is now as Christians. We are a people of life. That life is not centred in this world, but flows from the heavenly realm. Prayer brings this life into our lives now. If we are not praying then we are not truly living. Without experiencing this vital relationship with the Lord in prayer we are the living dead.
Prayer is vital for life. Paul tells the Phillipians that they should not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God (Phil. 4:6). In every situation prayer should be found. All our living should be prayer initiated and prayed saturated living. Prayer is needed to set us up for every day of our lives. Our Lord Jesus is our great example here:Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed (Mark. 1:35). A prayer-less life is a useless life.
Moreover, prayer to the Lord is needed in every crisis of life. Nehemiah when brought before the King lifted up an emergency, but very necessary prayer. We read The king said to me, ‘What is it you want?’Then I prayed to the God of heaven, and I answered the king (Neh. 2:4-5). The panics of life should always be immersed in prayer to the Lord so that peace might replace panic (see Phil 4:7)
PRAYER IS… WRONG when
- …..it is based on selfishness. James tells his Christian readers that When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures (James 1:3).
- …..it is based on prideful display. The Lord condemns the Pharisees for praying to be seen by men ‘And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full (Matt. 6:5).
- …..there is unconfessed sin. If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened (Ps 66:18). The Lord was similarly wearied with the prophets professed engagements with him in Malachi 1. Now plead with God to be gracious to us. With such offerings from your hands, will he accept you?’– says the Lord Almighty (v9).
- …..it is an excuse for doing nothing. When the lady on your street wants a lift to church and you have a car and say “I will pray about it”. Then that is an evasive approach and wrong.
- …..it is a cover for disobedience. When you know that God has called you to a certain task and you say that you are going to pray about whether or not to do it then that is using prayer as an excuse for disobedience.
- …..it is used as a good luck charm. We do not pray out of superstition. We pray because we want to move in God’s favour. The people in Jeremiah’s day were just talking about the temple of the Lord and the the temple of the Lord (see Jer. 7:4). They were using the temple as a lucky charm to get God on our side. We can do the same with prayer.
- …..you know the will of God. When you are asked to lie for you to reply by saying “I will pray about the matter” is completely inappropriate. There is no need to pray; you just need to refuse to lie.
(Taken from the Feltham Evangelical Church newsletter of August 2016)